Friday, February 20, 2009

Opening Weekend - College Baseball has begun!

Charles and I just had to be there....The first time that Josh walked on the field in a college uniform on a division one college team was important to share. So many practices throughout the years, so much travel, so many bumps and bruises and now the dreams of a little boy playing college ball for Josh has been realized. He called us last night while we were on the way to tell us that he received his newest uniforms and they were "awesome". Awesome? You bet!! What made them special to Josh is that the uniform FIT!! With a 6'5", 235 lb body, fit has always been an issue. His new pants are tailor-made and they are long enough and big enough to fit! The pride of wearing a Samford uniform represents so much.....It's the reward for thousands of hours practicing when no one was watching, and doing the mental and physical conditioning that is required along with lots of persistance and dedication. As they played the national anthem tonight and I saw Josh standing on the sidelines in line with the team, the emotions took over and my eyes filled with tears....I am proud of both of our boys for the men they are becoming and this is an important part of the journey for Josh. He has worked so hard to get to this place, and this is the just the beginning of the next stage of his life.

Tonight, Josh sat on the bench with all the other freshman, just happy to be in the dugout. The game was a good one against Kennesaw State. The score stayed close all evening, but Samford won in the 9th, 6 to 5. It was a great way to begin the season! Right now, Josh is scheduled to pitch on Sunday, so we are hoping to see him play.

As he goes into his first college season, we know that it will require an extra level of focus and determination. I am sure that resolution will be tested as they play 5 games a week for the next 3 1/2 months. It will take discipline on and off the field, especially with his academics in order to have a successful spring. Josh knows what it takes and he is up to the challenge.

Josh - May God bless you and keep you safe. We are praying for you and know the Lord will go before you. Dad, Chad and I will be behind you all the way - cheering you onward!

Go Bulldogs!! We are your #1 fans!!

Saturday, February 14, 2009

Rugby Road Trip

Chad loves Rugby - and has played for years. He fell in love with the sport when we lived in Mexico City and he played on his British school team. Rugby is a lot like football, but without the protective gear. It is a rough game and injuries are common - not a favorite game for a mom!

Chad plays on the Baylor team as a scrum half. The position requires good handling skills as well as quick reactions and the ability to spin the ball off both hands. Scrum halfs are the first tackler in defense and are behind every "scrum" to get the ball out and to maintain movement.

Baylor's last home game was on Saturday and we were determined to get to Waco to see him play - just a 3 hour drive away. However, due to a meeting earlier that morning, we were about 10 minutes late to the game. Chad was already sitting on the sideline with ice on his shoulder - not a good sign! While he wanted to see the rest of the game, the pain was just too off to the emergency room!! What a busy hospital on a Saturday! However, we were impressed with the triage...They sent the less serious cases to a different area - urgent care - which made it much easier for everyone. Chad was seen quickly by the orthopedic doctor on call, then xrays were taken. It was determined that he had seperated his shoulder from his clavicle tearing some ligaments - ouch!! They immoblized his arm in a sling, and sent him home with a prescription of vicoden. I was so glad that we were in town!!
We stopped by Subway to get his favorite footlong sub (a bit of pampering), on to Walgreens, then home to get him settled. While I hurt when he hurts, it was good to have the undivided time just to sit with him, even in an emergency room. No matter how old he gets, I want to be close when he is sick or hurt! Since it was Valentine's day and Chad had a date for his fraternity dinner (even with an injured shoulder), we headed off on our journey toward home. Charles and I celebrated at the Dixie Cafe - the half way point from Waco to Houston - and had a wonderful country dinner. While we didn't get to see his rugby game, we were happy to do a road trip to Waco..........Maybe next time! Go bears!! :)

Sunday, February 8, 2009

Friends for a reason....

After leaving Malaga at 7:00 am, I headed home through Paris. (Charles' flight path took him to Madrid-Miami-Houston, since he was flying via AA points.) My flight arrived late into Paris and by the time, I took the bus from the plane, cleared security a second time and got to the gate area, my flight had already departed to Houston. Since it was the only flight that day going to Houston on Air France, I had to be re-routed through Atlanta - after a 4 hour wait in Paris - which isn't a bad airport to be stuck in! :) I flew from Paris to Atlanta and again arrived late, went through immigrations and then on to get my bags for customs. Since I was changing airlines, I had to personally re-check my bags with Delta where I was advised to RUN to the gate, since they had already boarded!! So off I went, running up the stairs, through the change of terminals and just made the flight with minutes to spare. As I settled into my seat and the announcements were coming on, I took the opportunity to call Charles in Miami, my parents in Tennessee and my friend (Susan) who was picking me up in Houston to update them.

The lady sitting the seat over from me overheard my phone conversation about Malaga. She mentioned that she used to live in Spain and we talked all the way to Houston. Her story was an interesting one - She was an expat in Equatorial Guinea and currently fleeing the country!! I believe that "once an expat, always an expat" and that expats always bond together, so we hit it off immediately.

She (Beth) had been in Equatorial Guinea (West Africa) since September and waiting on their household goods. Instead of their shipment arriving at their home, the police came to her husband's (Jim) office and arrested him!! Apparently they found security books (He is the director of security, so of course, he would have security books!) in their shipment and determined that Jim was a threat to their government!! They let him go for the weekend, telling him to return on Monday. :) Instead, Marathon Oil arranged for them to leave the country on the next day's flight!! Now, they are official refugees and are "camping" in the Hilton Garden Inn in The Woodlands, TX!! I offered to help with needs while they were in town and we exchanged numbers knowing that we had met new friends! She has been doing a great blog on their experiences at
At this point, Jim has met with many people and it appears that the dictator in Equatorial Guinea thinks that he is a governmental threat, and will not let them back in!! Jim is looking into other job options now, but they will not be returning to West Africa - at least not to Equatorial Guinea!! They seem to have a great attitude about it all, but it has to be like living a novel - who would have believed it!!
In the meantime, we have been blessed by their presence!! We've been out for Mexican food, then to church together. Beth has joined my BSF (Bible Study) class and they also came to our house for dinner. We've had a wonderfully, relaxing time just getting to know them - what a neat couple!! Every time we see them, we realize that we have so much in common!!

It's amazing that God works in the details of our lives, even in missed planes!! :) We also know that God gives us friends for a reason, friends for a season and friends for a lifetime! What a privilege to miss a plane and to leave with new friends - We are truly blessed!
As they progress forward and learn what is in store for their future, I know that they would covet your prayers for guidance, for strength and for the blessing of allowing an angry dictator of a West African country to release their furniture and household goods.... And that God would open doors for them for their next assignment in a very clear way!!
"And he is before all things and in Him all things hold together." Col 1:17
****The picture of us was taken by Beth at our church - The Fellowship of the Woodlands. The picture of Beth and Jim was taken after the service as well.

Wednesday, January 28, 2009

La Hacienda - Sotogrande

We've had a great time in Spain. Not only have we seen lots of interesting places and experienced great food, we have had time to spend with family - which has been priceless. It's been fun to play with Sylvia and Savanna and experience life with David and Loretta in their new surroundings.

The HOLT home in Sotogrande is in a wonderful location with beautiful homes, stores, restaurants, schools, golf and marinas in close proximity. David only has to drive about 15-20 minutes to the port of Algeciras to work, which is nice. Their community is gated with security personal at the entrance point and it's so pretty with the hills and lush vegetation everywhere. I enjoyed this excerpt from an article about Sotogrande in a local magazine...... "Sotogrande's diversity and exclusivity deems this to be a mini paradise. Mansions, villas and apartments with their private moorings set a colourful and luxurious backdrop and exude an enviable way of life."

The house, itself, is also amazing!! They have 4 bedrooms, 5 bathrooms, 3 living areas, a playroom, an office, a huge pool (complete with statues, electric awnings and a large yard), 4 separate decks, lemon trees, avocado trees, a spacious dining room, and a very large, very Spanish kitchen!! They also have a gated parking area for their cars and a front garden with plants and landscaping galore.

I am most impressed with the views from the house, which are spectacular!! You can even see the Mediterranean and the Rock of Gibraltar on clear days. I think I would begin every morning on the deck with cafe' con leche! What a wonderful setting to begin their new life!!
While we have enjoyed our trip to Spain, we are headed back in the morning - very early!! We need to leave the house by 4am to make our 7am flight. My route goes through Paris and Charles is on a different flight through Madrid and Miami. We should arrive home just hours apart. We carry with us fond memories of Spain, Gibraltar and Morocco and wish our best to David, Loretta and the girls. Buena suerte a mi familia. Hasta Luego, Espana!

Mi familia en Espana....

My brother and family are taking on the world - literally. I am so proud of them and know that they have worked hard, sacrificed much and planned for this move to Spain. However, with great privileges come many challenges and they are just at the beginning of a wonderful adventure. After the honeymoon period, reality will set in.......and then it's time to learn to adapt in a new land, a new language and with new rules. It's difficult, yet it is so very exciting to begin life in a new country. I love this quote:
We must be willing to get rid of the life we’ve planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us.
Joseph Campbell, Author
To leave the past behind, and to open ourselves up to the potential in the future takes great courage and determination. It requires the rare ability to truly adapt to new situations, to step WAY out of our comfort zone and to create a new "normal" for ourselves. As hurdles are overcome, the benefits and the rewards are tremendous!! As a family with young children, they will be teaching flexibility, adaptability, life skills and the ability to relate to a wide range of people. We live in a global society where the world is getting flatter and smaller (The World is Flat by Thomas Friedman), so what a privilege that they are giving to little Sylvia and Savanna!!

As they make this transition, I'd like to share some things that we have learned through our many moves:
1. Embrace the differences of life in your new country. As Americans, we do things well, but we have much to learn from other countries. Becoming a multi-cultural citizen requires that you take the best of all worlds and make it your own.
2. Keep your sense of humor! There will be times that you can either laugh or cry - Always choose to laugh!
3. Communicate - Communicate - Communicate! Moving is tough. The more you talk, the easier you deal with the stresses of life in another country and the challenges of moving. Your best "compadre" is the one that is sharing the experience with you.
4. Travel and enjoy!! Be a visitor as well as a resident and take the time to explore and learn your new land together.
5. Study the language seriously....and don't stop till you "dream" in Spanish!!
6. Keep the memories - Don't forget to take pictures and write about your experiences, both good and bad. Writing about them can be therapeutic and allows others to share your life.
7. Keep in touch! Call, email, blog, write, visit facebook and send pictures.......Soon your network will span the globe.
8. Keep things in perspective.....Don't stress over the little things. Just say - Today, is a "SPAIN" day...........
9. Be Like a Duck - For some reason, moving can make us tougher on the outside and more tender on the inside. Be like a duck ....and let it all roll off!!
10. Remember that God has a plan and a purpose....."The Lord himself goes before you and will be with you; He will never leave or forsake you. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged." Deut 31:8
As you embark on this journey, may God bless you and protect you as you learn to live a new life in Spain. Our prayers, our thoughts and our love go with you. Vaya con Dios!

Monday, January 26, 2009

Couscous, Camels and the Casbah - Part TWO

Can you pick out the tourists in the picture below??
Answer: The tourists are the ones not wearing their pajamas!! :)
One of the things that we really enjoy while traveling is experiencing local cuisine. We had requested a typical Moroccan meal in a local restaurant and Said (Cy-eed) did not disappoint us!! The exterior of the restaurant looked just like all the other entrances around, but once we stepped inside, it was a different world!! We took Said's recommendation to order our food and we enjoyed all of it!! Our lunch started with the same soup that Muslims use to break their fast during Ramadhan - made with vegetables and broth. Our salad (pictured) was a mixture of cooked vegetables, including beets, tomatoes, cabbage and carrots. We had two entrees - a chicken with vegetables and couscous, and a meat pie in pastry covered with powdered sugar and cinnamon - both incredibly tasty!! For dessert, we had the best tangerines ever!! Lunch was fabulous, and fun too!! We were enjoying typical music while waiting on our meal and one of the musicians asked me to come play the drums with them. I couldn't resist!! How often would I get THAT chance?? While Charles was laughing and taking pictures, they motioned for him to join us too!! What fun!! We look pretty silly, but we enjoyed participating!
After our lunch, we explored more of the medina (old city) inside the casbah. We walked up and down the narrow streets full of activity where most of the people really live. The majority of these areas are communal living where there is a central water fountain, a community bathhouse (Turkish baths) and a community bread oven. The man who cooks the bread is paid by the piece and people just bring him bread all day. He cooks it, then the family returns to pick it up. We thought it was interesting that each family marks the bread with a different symbol, so they can distinguish their bread from the rest. When he saw us with a camera, he motioned me inside and was proud to show his oven (open flamed!!) and suggested we take a picture together.
It was nice to have Said (Cy-eed) for many reasons. One, we would have been very lost and would have still been looking for our way out of the medina. Second, he was able to answer all the many questions we had about things that we saw in front of us. One example was the sheep skin hanging out the window. He explained that each Muslim family would have just purchased a sheep for the recent holiday, Eid al-Adha (or the Festival of Sacrifice). This religious practice required the sheep to be slaughtered to commemorate the sacrifice that Abraham made to God. While as Christians, we believe that Abraham was willing to sacrifice his son, Issac before God provided a sheep, the Muslims believe that the son was Ishmael. Said also told us that the price of sheep go WAY up during December to $400-$600 each - requiring many poorer families to need credit to purchase the sheep. He also told us that many families (Said included) didn't want to kill the sheep, so it was the butchers busiest day of the year as he traveled from house to house!! The sheep skin was hung outside since it needed the fresh air before it could be used.

We also asked questions about the different dress. The national dress is the hooded robe for both men and women. If men don't use the hood, they tend to use a fez like the man pictured. We also saw women with pom-poms on their hats and we were told that these were the indigenous people called Berbers (think Berber carpet). We learned that the head covering for women was religious, but the face coverings (not seem much in Morocco) was required by the husband, not the church.
The sights, the sounds, the smells were all so foreign to us, and we enjoyed just walking the streets and observing. We learned so much that we wished we would have had a tape recorder to help us remember....
We enjoyed our time in Morocco and would love to come back someday. -

Saturday, January 24, 2009

Couscous, Camels and the Casbah - Part ONE

We made it to Africa!! :) Early this morning, we drove back to Tarifa, Spain in hopes of catching the 9am ferry to Tangier, Morocco. It was a 50/50 chance when we arrived due to high seas, but the captain decided to go ahead and we boarded the 35 minute high speed ride across the Strait of Gibraltar into Africa.

We had determined last night that we may be best to hire a guide in Tangier, so I checked some of the forums, got a recommendation and contacted Said (Cy-eed) via email to set it up. He was waiting on the dock with our name on a sign ready to show us the inner parts of the city.....the parts that tourists without a guide couldn't see. We have hired lots of guides through our travels, but Said (Cy-eed) was one of the best!!

We began our journey by driving on the outskirts of the city to the famous Hercules Cave. This site contains the symbol of Tangier.......The shape of the opening of the rock viewed from the inside of the cave appears to be the shape of a man laughing. Viewed from the ocean side, it is shaped like the continent of Africa.

As we were driving around the coast, we stopped to see the camels. We jumped at the chance to take a ride and it was so exciting!! Just the process of getting on and having the camels stand up, made me laugh - it was so high up!! We enjoyed riding along the coastline and seeing the area from the camel's view!! It was certainly one of the highlights of the day!! :) We thanked the owners and they were willing to pose for a picture. They kept wanting to wave, so I found this picture hysterical - especially in their "western" dress!! :)
We toured the general city passing the summer "cottage" for the Saudi Arabian royal family, the Tangier home for the Moroccan royal family and the Tangier Governors home -all spectacular! We then began our walking tour by going inside of the Casbah, through one of the 7 gates to the old city. The original town of Tangier was surrounded by a stone fortress called the Casbah (which means fortress in Arabic) in order to protect the city. (Remember the song by Clash - "Rock the Casbah"?). On the inside of the walls (inside the Casbah) is the ancient town, the medina, now filled with residental communities and souks. One of the things that we really enjoyed about Said, is that he was very knowledgeable about Morocco as well as the history. We enjoyed learning about the old and the new cities and the Arab/Muslim perspective. We found it ironic that the second tallest building in Morocco is the Catholic Church - of course the tallest is the Muslim Mosque.

Said took us to the local Souk - the open air market filled with fresh chicken, lamb, goats and kosher beef along with lots of fruits, vegetables and olives. This is where everyone does their shopping. (No grocery stores here!)

We also walked past many jewelry souks. We learned that when women marry, their groom buys them a gold belt made of solid gold with inserted gems (which really look like wrestling belts). Said told us that they always want skinny wives so they don't have to buy additional gold for their belt! :)

At noon, the 4 minute call to prayer came through the city with a loudspeaker from the mosque. It is a reminder to the Muslims 5 times during the day to pray. So Said headed over to the mosque for his noon prayers while we enjoyed a Moroccan lunch.
Part Two will start with lunch...There's just so much to write about Morocco!! :)
One more thing....I thought you might enjoy the Coca-Cola sign in Arabic. :)

Friday, January 23, 2009

Spanish Food - La experiencia!

Today, we went to visit another school for the girls, and then went to exchange Loretta's new cell phone, which wasn't working properly. Simple things are more difficult to accomplish in a foreign country until you learn the system in place (not to mention the language issue). After speaking with numerous people, moving around the store to different locations and a full hour of time, we were finally successful!! Yea!!
In the afternoon, we headed to Algeciras and the port. Charles met David for a guided tour of the massive terminal and David's work environment. It's a very impressive facility and it was obvious that David has already make a difference in many areas of the operation. Charles really enjoyed spending time talking with David about his new job and some of the challenges that he has already encountered. We are proud of his work and know that it's a great move for him!!

Loretta and I (and the girls) went to explore the local shopping at El Corte Ingles, just minutes away from the APM Terminal where David works. I was impressed with the availability of merchandise from clothing to shoes to decorative items. Loretta had some chances to practice her Spanish (I was very impressed with her fast progress!) while we enjoyed the stores.

Afterwards, we all met for a 4:00 pm late lunch at La Cabana - a Spanish restaurant with great local flavor. It was very authentic with a casual rustic decor, just like you would expect it to be in Spain. We did the entire spread - a luxurious 3 hour lunch!! To me, food in a new country is really interesting and I love to try most of it. However, David mentioned that I needed to put a retraction in the blog about the iberico ham, so here it is....Yes, after trying it on Wed, again on Thursday and now on Friday - I have tasted 3 different cuts and styles of the famous Spanish ham. The first two were just terrible, but I have to admit at La Cabana, they did it right. It was actually good....... or maybe I am beginning to acquire a taste for gamey meat!! I enjoyed the variety of food tonight, some of which just happened to show up on the table. We began with bread, olive oil and ham pate', which was good. Then we had some type of stew with beans/seafood/spices and ham, which was eaten with bread. The next course included a wonderful potato dish (potato/egg/cheese with iberico ham.) The following plate contained our appetizer - croquettes with cheese and ham (does anyone see a pattern here?) and then stuffed mushrooms with cream sauce (which were good, but I think there may have been tiny pieces of ham in the stuffed part?). As our entree', we all had different cuts of beef and pork grilled over an open grill, which was wonderful. Then on to dessert - Between the chocolate crepe and ice cream that Loretta had (yum!) and the chocolate torte that Charles ordered (rich!), we had a nice selection. David and I ordered limon sorbet, which was served with cava (champagne) poured over it. The restaurant itself was incredible and our waiter was excellent!!
To me, I don't just want to SEE another county - I want to experience it to the fullest!! The sights, the smells, the tastes are all such an intregral part of the grand experience of travel. Spain truly has so much to offer and we are fortunate to be able to try it all.....Eating our way through Spain has been fun! :)